Blog Prompt 16: Consider the following pairs and how they would fit into Aristotle’s categories of friendship: Thomas/Victor, Victor/Arlene, Arnold/Suzie, Lucy/Velma. Near the end of the film, Thomas asks Victor,“Do you know why your Dad really left?” Victor replies, “Yeah. He didn’t mean to, Thomas.” What didn’t Arnold mean to do? What does this exchange reveal to us about Victor and Thomas? How would Aristotle categorize their friendship?
Aristotle’s Judgement
Thomas and Victor are the type that don’t get along until they have to spend one day together to develop a bond. In the movie called “Smoke Signals”, it showed how they would cared for each other as brothers and at the end of the movie Victor gave Thomas his father’s ashes. Aristotle would say that their friendship is virtue not pleasure because when they both lost their father they’ll support each other through their hard times that they learned a lot of getting to know one of another and when Thomas received Victor’s father’s ashes from Victor himself seems to be a virtue thing than a pleasure wise. Aristotle would say that it’ll the most noblest thing to do for a man which he implies, “In all the actions, therefore, that men are praised for, the good man is seen to assign to himself the greater share in what is noble.” Aristotle refers on Victor giving his father ashes to Thomas is a very noble thing to do. Victor and Arlene as a mother and son bond there wasn’t enough dialog between the two, however action speak louder than words. Aristotle would define their friendship as utility because Arlene used to drink and get abused by Arnold who is Victor’s father when Victor was 12 at the time. Victor helped his mother unintentionally to stopped drinking by throwing beers at Arnold’s car because Victor was angry at his father and when Arlene saw that that’s when she decides to stop drinking. The abused became worst when Arnold was told to stop drinking or even try to remove beers and decides to leave Arlene and Victor. The film has a time jump to 10 years and I believe that throughout the years Victor helped his mother recover from the tragedy that happened after Arnold leaves. Arnold and Suzie seem close as good friends which surprises Victor because when Suzie first talked about Victor’s father he seemed to be a completely different person he was before. Aristotle can describe this as a friendship of utility because Suzie mentioned that her and Arnold shared each other’s secrets. I believe that throughout the years Suzie helped Arnold’s problems and changed his thoughts or desires to become better similar how Victor helped his mom out. Lucy and Velma’s friendship had the smallest screen time in the film, so far they seem to joke around and be comfortable with each other, however Aristotle would suggest that Lucy and Velma’s friendship is pleasure because they may have things in common or like each other’s personalities. Aristotle said, “…to those who are attached to one another by the motive of pleasure.” In the scene Velma drinks a coke while driving in reverse and Lucy lectures Velma on how she should watch the road until the car stopped, they both looked at each and laughed.
At the end of the Film
Thomas asked Victor, “Do you know why your Dad really left?” and Victor reply back, “Yeah. He didn’t mean to, Thomas.” In the beginning of the film Arnold was being drunk and playing with fireworks until one landed inside of Thomas’s house which catches on fire. The fire spread rapidly and Thomas’s parents had no choice, so they threw Thomas out of the window where Arnold can catch him and the parents were left there in the fire. Arnold felt distress and guilt so much that he left his own family, along the way he met Suzie and Arnold told her everything about the incident which Suzie helped him from his distress. Suzie always kept Arnold’s secret until he told Victor and at the end of the film Victor forgave his father which why he replied with, “Yeah. He didn’t mean to, Thomas.” This exchange reveals that Thomas and Victor are truly the friendship of virtue because they shared a close bond that they can trust each other without a doubt just like a brother would.
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